Showing posts with label legacy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label legacy. Show all posts

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Like a Library Burning Down - preserving your memories

Libraries hold books so others can read them and learn from them.

Our minds hold stories and wisdom that can help others. As part of our legacy, we need to preserve our lives and our stories for those who come after us. If we don't do something to preserve the stories before we die, then it's like a library burning down. When we die without preserving our stories, those stories are lost forever.

I am a member of the Legacy Builder Network, and its founder Scott Farnsworth co-authored a book called:
Like a Library Burning Down: Saving and Preserving Lifetime of Stories

You should check out this book if you are interested in preserving your legacy, or helping loved ones preserve their legacy (such as your parents or grandparents.

Libraries - the real ones and the ones in our mind

I have been thinking about how specific places help us remember stories and times from our past. I'm talking about specific geographic places on the earth. Just by returning there, memories flood back, many more and in more detail than you would have without going to that place. The detail is much more vivid. Something about the sights, sounds, even the smells. Do you remember how your grandparent's house smelled? What about the school or church you went to as a kid? Maybe you don't remember what it smells like now, but if you smelled it again, would you recognize it?

Today I had one of those experiences. And it wasn't even a place I had ever been as a kid. But it was a place that was similar to places I went years ago. This morning Bailey and I went to the library. The west branch of the Lincoln Library on Washington Street in Springfield, Illinois. Just being there bought back memories of going to the library as a kid in Taylorville, Illinois.

The Taylorville library was an old building, built with money from Carnegie (according to Wikipedia, $14,000 grant in 1903). The Taylorville library has a much newer building now, but I found nothing on their web site about the library's history.


Some of my thoughts and memories:

1. When I was in grade school in Taylorville, Illinois, I went to Memorial School. The school was a few blocks from the old city library, just off the Taylorville square. I used to walk to the library sometimes after school. The basement was the children's area. The children's librarian was a baseball fan (of the Royals if I remember right) and sometimes she would have the radio on to a Cardinals or Cubs game if it was a late game still going after school.

2. I remember being in a reading contest one summer where you got various stickers or something that were all related to knights and serfs.

3. I remember the library card that was just a little retangular card with a paper sleeve to keep it in. No bar codes or fancy plastic cards, just a handwritten name and library number on a pre-printed card.

4. Today some of the books I looked at still had those little pouches in front of the books for the due date card (which of course they don't use anymore).

5. I remember the library being such a peaceful place (both now and when I was a kid). Where things are quiet (or supposed to be - Bailey was talking another kid's ear off today in the kids' section!). Where people are not in a rush, but they are browsing around looking for the right book. No rushing in and rushing out like we do in most of our lives. And no self service here. Even now with the bar codes, you have to go to the librarian who scans them in and reminds you when they're due.

6. Over the years, I have gotten in the habit of buying books instead of going to the library. Some books I like to write in and highlight. Other books I just want to have around. I like books. But I was reminded today that I also like libraries.

7. What's to become of libraries? In Springfield, the city budget is in shambles (a lot like our state budget and our stimulus packaged federal budget). And one of the places to cut is the library budget. Unfortunately, I am one of the reasons the city budget is in such dire straights. Today when I went to check out books, I found out that my library card had an overdue fine of 60 cents owing since 1999. I paid it (after I dug some change out of my car, didn't have any other cash on me!)

Michelle has been taking Bailey to the library regularly, both in Springfield and Chatham. I like that. I want her to grow up with great memories of libraries and all the books and things to learn and the peace and quiet there.

What are your memories of going to the library?

Thursday, May 21, 2009

speaking June 2, 2009 - Central Illinois Planned Giving Council

Yesterday I got a phone call from an attorney in Chicago who had been told by a friend of hers out west (New Mexico I think?) about me speaking on June 2 about legacy building and planned giving. Boy, word gets around fast. She was asking if they could record my presentation.

Here is more info. I am looking forward to it. Event is the regular lunch meeting of the Central Illinois Planned Giving Council, meeting in Bloomington, Illinois. My topic is "What in the world does an estate planning attorney’s experience with legacy tools have to do with your planned giving efforts?" Here are some of the things I plan to cover:

The power of story telling (our native language)

Legacy planning (planning for non-financial wealth) is a growing nationwide trend among legal and financial professionals.

Examples of an estate planning attorney’s use of legacy tools.

Overcoming distrust between planned giving professionals and financial/legal professionals.

What is a Priceless Conversation and how is it being used in planned giving?

One true story: a planned giving officer’s use of legacy planning tools.

Ideas for group presentations (my life in a brown paper bag, my house, pictures from home, personal items of family and emotional value)

Practical resources and tools for including legacy issues in your planned giving efforts. (organizations, books, retreats, training)

Next steps for you to take now to explore legacy planning and its potential for dramatic impact of your work.

-David Otis Edwards, Edwards Group LLC, Springfield, Illinois